Metaphysical Mom's Musings

Finding Light in the Wilderness of Grief

Finding Light in the Wilderness of Grief

When my brother died suddenly last week at 55, the world seemed to wither like grass kissed by a harsh wind. Too young, I thought—too soon for the wilderness of grief to claim him. His life wasn’t easy; he carried burdens that might’ve broken a lesser soul, yet he soldiered on with a quiet resilience that still humbles me. Through every storm, his love for his family—his siblings, my kids, our nieces and nephews, all of us—burned steady and bright. Now, in this raw ache, as I write on April 1, 2025, I’ve turned to two anchors: Isaiah 40:1, 3-8, with its promise of divine comfort, and Christina Rossetti’s In the Willow Shade, a tender lament on life’s fleeting dance. Together, they whisper something bold: “the impossible is about to take place.” This musing traces how these works cradle my loss, weaving human fragility with stubborn hope—a lifeline for anyone else stumbling through their own shadowed valley, wondering if light still waits ahead.

Grief loss love hope

The Grass That Withers

Isaiah 40:6-8 cuts deep: “All people are like grass, and all their faithfulness is like the flowers of the field… The grass withers and the flowers fall, because the breath of the Lord blows on them.” My brother’s sudden loss mirrors this—vibrant one moment, gone the next, a flower faded at 55. He’d faced years of struggle, battles I only glimpsed, yet he stood tall, bending but never breaking. Rossetti’s In the Willow Shade echoes it: “All things are vain that wax and wane, / For which we waste our breath.” I see him in her larks, rising briefly before the night, and in her drooping heliotrope, the sun’s faint mirror. Today, my sun smolders red, my birds fall silent under the weight of grief. Both texts hold a mirror to my pain: life is fragile, and even his hard-won 55 years couldn’t escape that withering breath.

A Hand in the Dark

But Isaiah doesn’t leave me there. “Comfort, comfort my people, says your God,” it begins—a double dose of solace reaching into my desolation. My brother’s absence carves a void, deepened by his tough road, yet this promise hints at an impossible shift: comfort piercing the inconsolable. A highway in the wilderness, valleys lifted, mountains smoothed—it’s a divine redo of the unfixable, a path through grief I can’t yet trace. Rossetti’s speaker, shivering by a willow, asks, “Have you no purpose but to shadow me?” I feel that too—work undone, heart heavy, wondering why. Yet she offers a glimmer: “Love only doth not wane and is not vain, / Love only outlives death.” His love for us—steady through every trial, shining for the kids he adored—lingers like a warm echo, a gift I clutch in this cold...Finding Light in the Wilderness of Grief.

The Impossible Stirs

Finding Light in the Wilderness of Grief

Here’s the thread: “the impossible is about to take place.” Isaiah’s vision—nature reshaped, glory unveiled—promises a healing I can’t fathom. Not grief erased, but a highway through it, carrying his memory forward when standing still feels unbearable. He showed up, always, for us; maybe the impossible is his resilience rippling on, touching his family in quiet, unseen ways. Rossetti’s night feels like mine—shivering, resourceless—but her springtime renewal, her birds’ wordless joy, nudges toward Isaiah’s hope. He weathered so many winters, holding us close; perhaps his loss at 55 isn’t the end, but a beginning—his love rising like a lark, defying the dark.

From Shadow to Somewhere

Rossetti paints my now—the chill of loss, the half-done life without him, a drooping world. His struggles make it sharper: he fought hard, a warrior for us all. Isaiah throws me a rope: “The word of our God endures forever.” He was grass, yes, but his love—the way he showed up for our kids, his nieces, his nephews—might endure too. The impossible could be a highway forming in my wilderness, not erasing pain but guiding me toward a day when his 55 years glow as part of something vast. The willow’s shadow weighs heavy, but Isaiah says it’s not the end. Comfort creeps in—his grit, his warmth, the smile he saved for the kids—and Rossetti’s “love outlives death” meets that eternal word. What feels lost might yet bloom anew.

A Whisper for the Weary

A week into this grief, I shiver like Rossetti’s speaker, pondering what his life—and loss—mean. Fifty-five years, too brief; his absence, too sharp; his struggles, too many. Yet these voices murmur that the impossible hovers close: comfort in the bleak, a path through the desert, love outlasting the grave. I don’t see it clear—grief fogs my view—but I cling to this: something extraordinary might be stirring. His perseverance, his love for us, his siblings, and our children, rests here—and rises. If you’re walking your own wilderness of loss, take heart: the shadow isn’t all. Hope hides in the impossible, waiting to break through.

Metaphysical Mom's Musings Text

Finding Light In The Wilderness of Grief

Metaphysical Mom reflects on grief, loss, and hope after her brother’s death, finding comfort in Isaiah and Rossetti for anyone navigating their own wilderness.


Get these books for free on Kindle Unlimited:

"I am eating the Cranberry Muffins as I type this. YUM!! I used Organic Cranberry Sauce and Camino Muscovado Brown Sugar. Absolutely Delish! Looking forward to trying more of the recipes!" Amazon review

Grandma's Recipes Go Gluten Free

"This is a sweet short read of self affirmation and unconditional love and appreciation for the human spirit brought to this planet in the form of a perfect undeniably good little girl." Amazon review

I am a good girl

Comments

Thanks for reading! Have your say in the comments box below...

back to top of page

Site updated  April 3, 2025

Enjoy this page? Please pay it forward. Here's how...

Would you prefer to share this page with others by linking to it?

  1. Click on the HTML link code below.
  2. Copy and paste it, adding a note of your own, into your blog, a Web page, forums, a blog comment, your Facebook account, or anywhere that someone would find this page valuable.